Reciprocating Love December 28, 2009
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A cold boundary exists between us both , a boundary that is not physical not a wall , its just a imaginary seperation between us both. When you walk close by me , the edges of our boundaries rub against each other making that screeching sound which catches both our attentions but we refuse to pay heed , we carry on in our directions. I can see from the corner of my eye , u looking at me , just a glance but i refuse to reciprocate , i refuse to acknowledge.
Hooked To Splitsvilla 2 March 15, 2009
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The inumerous realty shows that have been aired on television or are running at present fail to get my attention leave alone hooking me and planting a desire to see it again. This was the case till I hit upon MTV Splitsvilla 2 .
I am an avid Television viewer, and my interest lies in unscripted realty shows be it musical, dance or drama. These shows keep me guessing by their twists and turns , and i guess i like surprises.The success of a show depends on the people who are in it , the format of the show also plays a part but that is upto a certain point , after a few episodes it is upto the contestants to carry the show on their shoulders.
Splitsvilla 2 !!! What a show !!! Kudos to the management and contestants.They have some how managed to assemble a group of 9 nymphs and 9 hunks ,who are not only attractive but have scintillating spectrum of personalities.The quality of the show is somehow over the roof when compared to the other reality shows , be it , ZEE’s DID or MTV Roadies.
I have just managed to watch the first episode of Splitsvilla and i think i have been hooked , the format has completely taken a Scrap when you compare it with the first season. Thank god they didnot select a bunch of ex-roadies and stuff them in this season, all the faces are fresh and exciting.The girls are hot and sexy , but i think the main attractions are the boys some of them are models i suppose cause they look so good on the reel.
Somehow i missed the second episode of it yesterday night , so i am going to catch up with it now as a retelecast will be coming up now , and for those who have not yet watched the show, give it a look .
The Ubiquitous Beauty February 13, 2009
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“Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder” , how true is this statement I set foot on a inner journey to find the answer to this question. What attracted me to the opposite sex , was it just a beautiful body or was there something else my inconspicuous mind was hooked to.
I generally get attracted to voluptious, bootylicious bodies well who doesn’t. Sometimes i also get attracted to some strange bodies which would be classically classified as obese or overweight, but i still manage to find something sexy in them.I have come to the conclusion that you do not have to get attracted to all the curves in a womans body, just one will do.
What value does the face play , in your looking sexy , i think it does , i may even consider rejecting a beautiful body if the face is not attactive enough , but mind you thats a rare case, a beautiful body almost everytime comes with an alluring face.
Body language and attitude are other ingredients which i look out for to get attracted. A firm, bouncy, balanced , intoxicated body language can easily throw me off balance.Attitude is a very dangerous,useful weapon , it can be used to enhance attracted but may backfire if used too much .
The Rejuvenation February 3, 2009
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8 wins on a trot , this is not a common sight that indian cricket fans are used too. We have been brought up watching a 5 match series going down to the wire , to the last match . Inexplicably India used to make sure that the score was 2 each before the final day.And then the much anicipated final would be as unpredictable as the tournament itself full of twists and turns, a suspenseful ride which would put Hitchcock movies to shame.Complete middle order collapses,palled faces and fatigued bodies of the players in the middle,bowlers being marauded by intimidating batsmen of the other team were common sights for the Indian fans .
Something has changed , India has become the epitome and epicenter of world cricket now. IPL proved to be the turning point which brought India to the spotlight. India became the mecca of cricket . The Indian team realised its superiority and rediscoved its self esteem. It found new leaders and gave birth to new champions. The old aficionados of the game passed baton to the next generation. India got its first fast bowler , chalenged the untouchable australian team and dethroned them from the top spot.
This is a rejevunated Indian team which believes in its capabilities and would accept nothing less than the best.This is no one mans effort , after a long time the indian team looks like an unit, a strong force.
“Satyam”-Bundle of lies January 10, 2009
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When i first heard the news of the satyam fiasco , i flushed it aside as another rumour which keeps on floating in the IT circles. Satyam as the name exemplifies epitomises the indian IT growth story along with companies like infosys,wipro and TCS. Its hard to believe that a billion dollar company is faced with a crisis of such magnitude all of a sudden.
What options are left with the employess of satyam?Are they still proud to be called satyamites?This incidence has left an indelible blemish on the image of the company and its employees . Already resumes have started flooding job consultancies and there is an excess talent puddle that is being created in the job market.Moreover the picture of job market in india is very grim due to the global recession , now incidents like these will encourage companies to cherry pick and poach.Yearly thousands of freshers are getting released into the job market , they will face the direct consequences of the situation, they will have to either opt for higher studies or settle with very humble or meagre salaries.
What about the clients of Satyam? Will they have the trust in satyam to carry out their projects?Many projects in satyam would be in the mature stage and would require critical treatment and attention from the satyam employees , the distraction may cause dissatisfaction among the employees and their motivation levels may drop to such an extent that it would start affecting their works.Clients on the other hand would have started looking for other offshoring options which can ensure a smooth transition in their projects so that the work doesnt get affected. Projects at infant stage and new contracts will be certainly snatched away from satyam.
Understanding a Woman November 13, 2008
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“The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?’”-Sigmund Frued
Why has understanding women been such a mystery? The thougt process of a women does not follow any pattern , it is like a free flowing river which can bend and twirl at its own whim.
A Woman plays many roles in her life , a mother,daughter,sister,wife.But the true feminine characterestics are reflected when she is in a relationship.What i have been most amazed about is the words that a woman uses and the underlying thought at that point of time very rarely match.And the conclusion that i came to is that women never mean what they are saying,their words are actually cryptic and implicit.
Here is a collections of words that you may hear from a woman ,and their deciphered meaning:-
1)when a woman says “I like your ….shirt …tie…hat….”
what she actually means is “why dont you take my number and call me up sometime later”
2)when a woman says “i have some work …not feeling well..will call later..or meet later” many men confuse this as ignoring tactics of women but thats a misconception.
what she actually means is”she is not ready to meet you”…. give her some time and she will get back to you.
3)when a woman says “i hope i am not boring you” here she needs assurance from you
what she actually means is”why dont you appreciate my thoughts?”
4)when a woman says “i generally dont talk to anyone so freely as i am talking to you”
what she actually means is ” you are special to me”
5)when a woman says “many guys have proposed to me….many guys keep on staring at me…”
what she actually means is “are you interested in me?”
I will stop here because the post is becoming too long,but i hope that i have made my point, if we could understand women better then i dont think any relationship or marriage would have to go through crests an troughs from time to time.
The Provoked November 11, 2008
Posted by maverickwarrior in Life.Tags: Anger, Provoked, Provoker, Seduction
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Can you remember the last time you got into an spat with someone?What role were you playing the provoker or the provoked?
How does it matter you may ask, well this is a key concept that we should understand before i hit the main subject of this article.Most of the time we play the role of the provoked,and do ourselves damage in some way or the other.Remember the power stays in the hand of the provoker not the provoked,you are like a bulb which can be switched on and off by the slight provocation by the provoker.
A provoker can be anybody, a writer, an actor, a politician, a philosopher, a religious guru,an auto driver,a shopkeeper.Some may provoke positive thoughts and actions in you whereas others may trigger anger,hatred,frustration . If you are getting moved by these people their thoughts ,their words their actions, you become the provoked,you unknowingly surrender to the superiority of the provoker. The provoker now has a pie of control over you, he makes you think about himself and his thoughts and actions.
Seduction, is for the provoker. A master seducter is a skillful provoker. Seduction schools generally teach the concept of provoker and the provoked and how to be a master provoker.Another application of the concept is in anger management,the day we realise that by getting provoked we are giving higher value and power to the provoker we would stop getting angry.
Lets face the mirror with confidence November 9, 2008
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All babies are cute ,i have never heard of or seen an ugly baby.They are so attractive,everybody wants to play with them talk with them take them in the arms,pull their cheeks. So why do we complain that god didnt make us attractive or beautiful.
Once upon a time we were a baby , so many men were jealous of us as beutiful women adored our beauty and took us in their arms , we were so happy then.
And now ,i dont know what has happened to us ,when we see the mirror we see someone who is familiar but not us,we are no more attractive, nobody is charmed with our beauties,nobody wants to be with us, whats wrong we wonder.
Did we take proper care of our bodies?Our body is like a machine, which needs proper maintenance at regular intervals. It needs proper food and exercise to look its best.Our whole lives we have ignored our bodies we have betrayed it, left it alone.No wonder now it is playing along with the mirror its new friend to make fun of us.Do we want this to happen our whole lives?
Most of us are too busy with other things that we have forgot to do the things that will make us happy in the long run.Modern technology has given us all the means to look beautiful and attractive.Here are some of my personal tips so that next time you could face the mirror with confidence and a smile:-
-Short men and women who are concious about their heights , please start wearing high heels and high rise shoes, this will give you that extra inch to you and your confidence.
-who dont like their hair style ….please spend some money and get an hair cut..
-issues with your teeth…see a dentist/plastic surgeon..which ever applicable…
-eyes are squint or too small….eyebrows are light …use kaajal/eye liner..this will make them appear big and beautiful…
-hate hairs on the body…remove them ..do waxing, threading,trimming whichever applicable…
-get your palms and feet look beautiful …go for a pedicure and manicure at least once in 3 months…
-bad breath..use mouth wash before sleep….brush our teeth more than once ….keep mint handy…use spray for special occasions
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-who perspire a lot…get some good deos and perfumes…also wear some vests so that your t’shirts are safe…take bath more than once..
-if you are loosing hair…go bald its in fashion….get a good beard or gotee…or go for some surgery to implant hair…the more adventurous types can go for wigs…
-use the right shampoo and conditoner for your hair …consult a beautician…
-who are putting on weight….forget dieting…just hit the gym…jog in the morning…burn your calories…drink lots of water…in this way you can keep on eating what you like…
-who are underweight…just change your eating habits …consult a dietician..its very easy to put on weight with the help of proper food intake…there are numerous examples where actors have to put on weight for certain roles within a short period of time….
-want to loose fat in specific areas….concentrate on exercises which will target those areas ..
-want to look fair…go for bleaching..once in 3 months is recommended…it will lighten your skin colour….too much bleaching is harmful for the skin…in my opinion a clean and shining skin is what we should aim for rather than changing the colour of it..
-want to look dark ..go for tanning…spend time in the sun….
-want do change some of your body part that you dont like …go for plastic/cosmetic surgery….it is an one time investment to bring your confidence back..if it is worrying you so much..
-want to get rid of your specs …go for lasik
The Laws of Attraction November 6, 2008
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Have we ever imagined how we get attracted to someone. We crave day and night to own that person.We wish that somehow ,some coincidence should bring us together. We are sometimes afraid of rejection so we keep our feelings to ourselves.Sometimes we gather courage to overcome our approach anxiety but we dont know when,what and where to talk, this state confuses our mind and ultimately we end up messing things up.
All this is because we dont understand the basics of human evolutionary psychology and the laws of attraction.In the last million years humans have been able to pass on their best genes to the next generations by a process named as “selective breeding”.
Men and women have been selective in choosing their partners who are healthy and carry good genes.This process of selective breeding happens almost unconsciously in our mind,a natural ability that we are born with.
Men get attracted to visual stimulus from the female, a study has shown that a female with a waist to hip ratio (WHR) of 0.7 are of the most attractive and fertile types.For men a WHR of 0.9 is recommended.Psychologically men are looking for a women who can give birth to a healthy child and take care of the baby while it grows up.A higher WHR ensures a large womb and thus a healthy baby.
Women on the other hand are not visually stimulated to that extent as men.This will be a big disapointment for many men but actually this is the only reason why humans have been able to climb the top of the food chain and stamp their authority as the most supreme of species.Then how do women get attracted? Women generally get attracted by the qualities in a man which will be reflected in the personality. They way you talk,walk,speak,sit,move,sleep.Women have an evolutionary mechanism to scrutiny you to the minutest of details,they will observe you for such things which you would never paid heed to,and they will love you for that.They can smell the genes in you, believe me there is no way to hide.When a women gets a desire to have a baby from you ,she knows that she has found a set of good matching genes by the process of selective breeding.
How to crawl out of Depression November 3, 2008
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Depression eats you up from within, everything seems to work against you, you feel so lonely, all the confidence is wiped off, there is no motivation left, you feel as low as a beggar, you see no light in the dark tunnel of your life, you loose all your self esteem , your head becomes heavy as a canon ball ready to explode, all negative thoughts bombard in your head,you feel like sleeping till eternity and waking up in a new and beautiful world.
Depression can attack you at any moment in your life, failure is the major culprit of depression.Failure in relationships, career may shake your existence.Even the strongest minds are disburbed by such emotional breakdowns but they are not destroyed, they crawl back to life by merely their passion towards life and the zeal to live.
How to crawl out of depression? Minds have different thought process to come out of depression some of them are mentioned below:-
-”I am not finished yet, i can take more pain“-This is how a fighter, a warrior trains his mind to come out of depression, for him no pain is big enough he just stands steady in the wind and challenges it to blow him away.
-”This is just a phase and will pass away,good times are just round the corner“-This is how an hardcore optimist trains his mind to face depression, he finds happiness in smallest of things in life. He patiently waits for the wind to pass and hides himself in a protective place so that he is not harmed.
-”These are my testing times, and I wont dissapoint myself“-The believer trust his abilities and skills and is confident to see through the wind.
-”Lets move on, what has happened was destined,new destinations are waiting for me“-The realized mind doesnt wait for the wind to get over but focuses his mind completely out of the depression and starts a new life afresh.
